Lovin' the Life

Lovin' the Life

Wednesday, May 30, 2018

It's Amazing and I love it!!

My darling friend April talked me into getting Lasik done.  Mostly she planned everything and said I needed to come too.  We both have friends who went to Korea and got their eyes done at this clinic so we did that too. April did all the emailing and coordinating so all I had to do was show up and throw my money at them. April is still in Iwakuni, so it was a great way for us to get together, as well. So, here is the long version of how it went down:

On Wednesday, two shrieking women dashed madly into each other's arms and jumped up and down in the middle of baggage claim at the Seoul (Incheon) Airport.  The Military hotel, Dragon Hill Lodge  on Yongson base in Seoul has a free shuttle bus from the airport to the hotel, and we managed to get on the 5pm bus and were at the hotel at 6:30.

Thursday morning we used the Lodge's Travel Desk's assistance to figure out a route to the Glory Seoul Eye Clinic and we were quite delighted to navigate the subway system to get there, although it did take twice as long as expected (cost was $2 to our stop, which was right next to the clinic building).  We did not care, we were still victorious!! And a little delighted that Gangnam was the exit station.

We walked in about 10:15 and signed in.  It was an assembly style operation.  I think they said they do 800 surgeries per week in there. It was busy but they moved quickly.  I went from one station to the next and then to the next and the next. They were very nice and very professional and I had the same guy walking me through everything.  They measured everything possible with my eyes.  Then we met with the surgeon who explained the results of all the testing.  My eyes were at a 7, which means my prescription was freakishly high and my glasses excessively thick.  They said they won't do Lasik after 8, so I was just under the limit.  My corneas were nice and thick, so I qualified for Lasik.  April also qualified, even though she had thinner corneas; her eyes were nowhere near as bad as mine so she could get way with thinner corneas.  (If my corneas had been as thin as hers, I would not have been able to do it.)

Once they explained all the options and we enthusiastically shouted Yes, Yes, to Lasik, we went downstairs and eagerly paid.  In case anyone else wants to go do it (and I highly encourage you to!!), the total cost was $1200 for both eyes.  And we could have walked away and paid nothing if we opted not to do the surgery.

It was about 12:30 by the time we finished paying because April's card wasn't going through and she had to call USAA to try to sort it out.  We had just enough time to run around the block to pick up our multiple eye drop prescriptions ($60 for all that) and grab lunch.  We were back at the clinic about 1:15.  We checked in, went upstairs and got lovely hair nets.  I felt like the lunch lady.

We had a super awesome attendant.  She spoke good English and explained the process and walked us through everything.  She sat with April while I went in.  I was nervous.  The problem with having a doctor who does not speak much English is that you can't be a baby.  I told myself that it would only be 10 minutes and I could handle 10 minutes of discomfort.  I put on my big girl panties and got on the table.  The lights were so bright I had to close my eyes.  They put a bunch of drops in my eyes and wiped down my face. They covered my left eye and told me to open wide and popped something in my right eye to keep it open.  I had had visions of wire grabbers, like in the movie Minority Report, but it wasn't like that and bad at all. I couldn't feel anything.  Then they pushed down on it till my vision went black.  I was definitely okay with not seeing anything!! All I could feel was the intense and really uncomfortable pressure and I counted in my mind because I knew it wouldn't be more than 30 seconds, and it wasn't.  Then they did the other eye. It was so fast and easy and I was so excited!  Then I found out that it was just Part 1 and I had more to go.  Yikes!

Next came the worst part.  They opened the flap they just cut into my eyeball.  It was the scariest thing for me and I struggled so hard to be still.  It was over pretty quick and then it was on to the next machine.  I was lying on the table and they just rolled me over to it and told to stare at the green light. They did something to keep the eye open, I don't know what and it wasn't painful and it did not freak me out, so it was fine.  He said "17 seconds" and I counted down while I smelled my eyeball burning.  The smell was bad and gross, but I didn't feel anything and all I could see was the faint green light.  So it was not bad at all!  They did the other eye.  And then there was the closing of the flap, which was better than the opening of it.

Then they said I was done and I could sit up and get down.

But I was a little lightheaded from all the stress so it took me a minute.  I could see, but not well.  It is hard to describe.  It was fairly clear but really foggy.  I went out and waited for 10 minutes for April and then we compared notes and made sure we understood what to do with all our prescriptions. (Antibiotic drops 4 times a day for a week, anti inflammatory eye drops 4 times a day for a month, lubrication drops every 10 minutes for the first day, then every 30 minutes for the next few days, until the 3 bottles were gone.  Then minimum of 4 times a day for the other lubricant drops for at least 4 weeks.) And we were done!  We walked out the door about 2pm, all finished!

We took a cab back to the base, but had to walk on since the cab wasn't allowed on base.  It was weird, being able to see but not see fully.  We made it to the hotel and did our frequent eye drops.  The numbing stuff was wearing off and my eyes were burning a bit and felt really tired.  April was in more pain.  We had hoped we could do sightseeing, but no, we were definitely not up for that!  We took naps.  My eyes felt better a few hours later, no more burning or pain, just fatigue, and kind of sore from all the pressure on them earlier. April had more of a feeling like she has something in her eye, but no more pain that evening.

Friday morning we headed back to the clinic for a follow up appointment at 9:40. They had put a protective contact lens in after the surgery so they removed that.  I felt like my vision went down a notch after it came out!  They assured me it would come back.  The doctor said 2 weeks (and the awesome attendant lady said a month) till everything was all settled and as good as it would get.  Our eyes were proclaimed to be looking good and we were good to go!  That was all.

We were feeling good and our eyes were seeing well so we wanted to do some sightseeing.  We took a taxi to the Korean War Memorial and it was awesome.  I was really glad we could do something wile we were in Korea.  It was worth visiting and I would go again.  We went back to the hotel and got our stuff and took a taxi to the airport ($65 flat rate).  The free shuttle schedule was not conducive to our schedule.  We could have taken the subway or a taxi to a bus, but the straight taxi was fastest (and probably only $20 more) and we were worried about how long it would take.  We got to the airport in plenty of time and parted ways.  April went back to Iwakuni and I flew to Okinawa.  I maybe should not have parked at the airport because then I had to drive myself home.... in the dark.... with my new eyes.  Yep, the haloing was bad.

It has been 6 days now and I am still loving it so much!  Why did I not do this sooner?!!  I can see well and it is almost perfect now.  I still need a little time in the morning before I can read small print, but I am thrilled with the results.  I am using my eye drops religiously and the worst issue is sometimes feeling like I have contacts that have been in too long and I want to take them out.  Then I put in my eye drops and it feels better. Light seems brighter and I wear sunglasses whenever I am outside.  I will schedule a follow up appointment with my eye doc for a month out and see how they are doing.  But overall, I am really happy with it.  April says she is really pleased as well.

Wednesday, May 23, 2018

Sunday Photos

We managed to get some decent pictures in before church on Sunday. These were all the people that were squished into the house.  

Three generations of Fox ladies. 

Adam and Mom hamming it up with "Bad Prom" poses. 

And Adam going with "Blue Steel". 

Selfie with my mommy. 

Mom with her youngest grand baby.  So cute!

Chillin' after church.

Selfie with Deborah before she left. 

Selfie with Miranda before she left.

It was a wonderful weekend.  I feel so blessed to have the family I have and to have siblings that I genuinely love and enjoy spending time with.  Somehow it is never long enough when we get together.

Tuesday, May 22, 2018

Saturday fun with the Family

 How crazy was the weekend?!!  Pretty crazy.  10 children, 11 adults, 5 bedrooms, 1 tent, 2 hammocks, and 2 bathrooms.  And it was amazing.  I love my family.
I wanted a picture of all the cars parked out front.  There are 4 parked on this side.

 And 6 parked on this side.  Although, to be fair, the sweet Model A is usually in the garage.

This kids played really well together.  Yes, there were skirmishes and some quarreling, but there was a lot of good play time between cousins.   

Mom sat in her "Throne" and we revolved around her. 

When the chaos level got too high, we went out to see the new fire trucks at the fire station.  Someone discovered that they were offering free lunch that day and we took advantage of it! The kids had a blast checking out the equipment.


And we were able to get all these people lunched.... for free.  It was great.


Deborah took a lot of photos. 

 Miranda was the winner with the youngest kid in the house.  

 And Mom's amazing friend Tanya made this amazing cake.  3 layers of decadent chocolate cake.  And it was two 9x13 cakes side by side.  It was actually enough to feed the masses!

Dad may have been very excited about it.  Heck, everyone was!

Sunday, May 20, 2018

Going Home

 I have not posted about my Mom's health, but I guess I ought to, since this is a journal for our family.  Mom was diagnosed with Stage 4 Colon Cancer 2 months ago. We planned to be out to visit this summer, but Miranda called me and mentioned that all my siblings were going to try to get together for Mom's birthday, which fell on Mother's Day this year.  After a bit of thought, I decided I did not want to be the only kid missing from this epic celebration.  I did not tell Mom I was coming out and I bought tickets to fly into Springfield. I coordinated with Jonathan and Kristy (since they live closest to the airport).  Kristy picked me up at 8pm Thursday and on Friday, Jonathan an I drove down to Mom and Dad's house.  Miranda and her family was already there.  Deborah and Andy and their families arrived Friday night, and Adam flew in from Oregon late-late Friday night and surprised Mom on Saturday.  It was awesome and amazing and so worth the trip!

I had a 4 hour layover in Narita after the 3 hour fright from Okinawa.  I worked on getting my steps in and did some laps around the airport before the long leg of the trip.

I'm on the plane and ready to be bored out of my mind for the next 11.5 hours.  Whoopeee!! 
I had a layover in Dallas and then it was only 1.5 hours to Springfield.

Mom was at the doctor's when I arrived.  When she got home, the little kids lured her to check out this sweet tent we'd just put up.  She went inside and I snuck down so when she came out of the tent, I was there.  It was fantastic.

Totally made it worth the long flight and travel!

Of course I went to Walmart on Friday!!!

And I drooled over the quantity and variety of fruit and was bitterly jealous of the low prices. 

And Adam surprised Mom on Saturday morning and it was the best thing ever.

Wednesday, May 16, 2018

5th Grade Field Trip

 Delaney is unhappy that she doesn't have any great field trips this year.  But she did have one very little one and she really wanted me to go on last week.  It was a very exciting trip to...... the middle school.

I got to hang out with a bunch of excited and rowdy 5th graders as we took the bus to the middle school and got to tour it.  The 6th graders giving the tour did a most excellent job and were pretty thorough.  Delaney is not happy to be moving into middle school next year.

Trying out the cool chair in the library.  She may or may not have rocked it too far and fallen backwards and gotten stuck.

Checking out the hallways and feeling amused by her silly classmates. 

Learning about Seminar class.

Sunday, May 13, 2018

Good Grades

 I got to go to the Elementary School Award ceremony. I love that it is short and sweet!  Just the 5th grade classes.  Apparently Delaney got all A's this last quarter.




Friday, May 11, 2018

Miscellaneous

I am still making blankets.  Just not as much as I would like. I need to be less busy so I have more time! I do love the scrappy ones. 

This poor little bird managed to get in the house and flew dramatically into the blinds on this window.  He hid here and refused to budge, so I had to use a scarf to scoop him up and carry him outside, where he flew away quickly. 

Waiting at the eye doc.  I love that both of them are reading!

This kid needs glasses. I took her to the mall to try some on and she hated everything.  I even took some pictures of her with them on so she could see how she looked.  She was not impressed. 

 I found this selfie on my phone and it made me happy!  She has been so diligent with her patching and her eye has improved significantly.  Hooray!

Josh is staying after school on Wednesdays for Wood Working Club.  He made me this bench!  I am impressed!

Wednesday, May 9, 2018

Back at the Beach

 We wanted to go to the beach on a lovely Saturday.  Somehow we decided to head towards Sand Dollar and Sea Glass Beaches and find a good place to stop. If we didn't find a new place we could park, we would just go on to Sea Glass Beach.

We followed the road around the coast and passed our parking spot for Sand Dollar Beach. There were cars taking it up already, so we continued on.  We saw a sign that said "Beach" with an arrow, so we were adventurous and followed it.
We ended up driving down this for a bit!  It ended in a parking area with about 10 cars there, so we joined the crowd.

The path down to the beach popped us out to this glorious sight.

It was a lovely beach with soft sand, which is rare. But the soft sand and lovely beach was just here.  You could walk to the right and in 1/2 mile or so you would find Sand Dollar Beach.  To the left, you would eventually get to Sea Glass Beach.  We went left.

It was mostly this coral rock and no sand.  No good shells to find either.  And no sand dollars.

These girls did not care!  Oh, did I mention that we brought the dog?!  Levi was thrilled to be out sniffing stuff.

Much climbing was done. And much fun was had in the process.

I needed a picture of this because it made me think of my geologist sister and how much fun she would have with these rock formations. 

 Trying out their poses.

Being silly.  And making me laugh. 

 Levi did a surprisingly great job getting up and down the rocks.  He was having a blast.

I know, they made me take a million pictures.  Be glad I did not post them all!! 

I think they wanted every mountain climbed to be documented.   

 And they sound this little cave.  It was not very exciting.


Levi enjoyed the sand, but boy was he a stinky mess when we got home! 

 I do not know why Callie is flaring signs.  I think she's just too cool.  Actually, she is, since she found this nifty little cave here.

 Rylee is sulking up there.  Apparently I forgot to take her picture and she was mad.  Since I had taken 500 pictures already, I don't know how she knew I had missed one!

 Selfie at the Beach! I'm loving it!

Levi loves the beach, but is not a huge fan of the water. He prefers knee deep or less.  So Callie was particularly pleased with herself that she got him to swim out and back from that rocky island.  

 And here he is, swimming back in!  He was such a good dog.

We did walk all the way around to Sea Glass Beach and it was a lot of fun.  We made it halfway back before Levi cut his paw on something and we alternated between walking him back, stopping so he could lick it, and getting him to walk in the water to rinse if off.  It ended up being a little cut on the side of his main paw pad, and it stopped bleeding once he stopped messing with it and we got him in the car.  We may need doggie boots for him. Our awesome felt-bottom boots were amazing and kept our feet safe.