This was our very first year to have Christmas all by ourselves. I was a bit uncertain how it would be. Family has always been important to me, and the idea of no family at Christmas would have been devastating 10 years ago. After a few children, traveling became more of an issue (for all of us!). Still, I like having family around. Dan's family, my family, I like family! I was afraid it wouldn't feel like Christmas without some of them around.
This was a fabulous Christmas! No stress. No out-of-wack schedules. Heck, I didn't even try to make toffee this year, and I only made one batch of caramel. It was also kind of fun to get to set up our very own traditions. We still need a little work in that department, but at least now we have an idea of what is important to us and what we want to keep doing every year. And did I mention that the kids slept till 7 this morning?! Aaaahhhh, that was wonderful!
It was sweet to see Marian so excited about wrapping gifts for her siblings. She loved finding things for Callie and wrapping them up for her sister. That really melted my heart. Delaney caught on very quickly to the idea of things and she had a blast tearing into gifts. We like to take turns opening gifts so everyone can see, and the kids were great about that. It was cute to see them so excited about their own gifts and their siblings gifts.
Christmas makes me think about being a mother. Joshua was 3 1/2 months old at his first Christmas. I remember reading the Christmas story and really seeing it for the first time. As a brand new mom, I wondered how Mary must have felt, and how could she deal with this huge responsiility she had been given. And I realized, I had that same responsibility. I had been given a child of God to raise. My son was a child of God. I had been tasked with raising him, and teaching him. Wow. I remeber that feeling most strongly at Christmas, and I hope I am doing a good job. I hope I am treating my children as the special, wonderful spirits that they are. And I hope they know they are divine beings who I only get to boss around for mortality.
And on that note, here are some random shots of the loot-fest!

